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A New Jersey mother of four died of COVID-19 before she could hold her newborn son

Michelle Stani gave birth to her fourth child, a son named Jayden, on Christmas Eve.

In announcing her pregnancy last fall, Stani called Jayden an "Irish twin" to his sister, Jordan, 11 months, adding that he would even out her clan — two boys and two girls.

Just three weeks later, Stani was gone. The 37-year-old died of COVID-19-related complications on Jan. 12 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick, New Jersey.

Stani never got to hold her newborn son.

Family and friends are left to mourn Stani, whom they called a "beautiful soul."

On Christmas Eve, Michelle Stani gave birth to her fourth child — a son named Jayden. Just three weeks later, the mother of four was gone. The 37-year-old died of COVID-19-related complications on Jan. 12 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick. Stani never got to hold her newborn son.
On Christmas Eve, Michelle Stani gave birth to her fourth child — a son named Jayden. Just three weeks later, the mother of four was gone. The 37-year-old died of COVID-19-related complications on Jan. 12 at Robert Wood Johnson University Hospital in New Brunswick. Stani never got to hold her newborn son.

Stani is survived by her children, Samantha, 19, Noah, 4, Jordan and Jayden.

She is also survived by her parents, John and Susan Stani, her partner, Frank Allen, and her two brothers, Sean and Jack Stani, according to her obituary.

Described by family and friends on social media as a vivacious, fun and loving woman, Stani was dedicated to children – her own and the many she cared for and taught as a child care director. She "valued education highly" and "loved being around children," her obituary said.

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Born in New Brunswick and raised in Franklin, New Jersey, Stani earned education degrees from Raritan Valley Community College and Caldwell University, according to her obituary. She graduated last year from Rutgers University with a master’s degree in education.

In October, she posted a photo of herself "rocking" her cap on the way to graduation ceremonies and planning to wear it all day.

Before her graduation from RVCC in 2009, Stani told a MyCentralJersey.com reporter that necessity started her career in early childhood education.

"I started working at a day care (center) so I could make money and bring (Samantha) for free at the same time," said Stani, who added that a boss encouraged her to pursue studies in the field because she was good with children.

Stani overcame several hurdles to reach this milestone. She once lost her apartment because of a legal dispute with the complex's owner and was forced to seek shelter assistance. In her final semester at RVCC, she not only cared for her daughter while taking six classes, but also worked two jobs and accumulated field experience.

"When I really think about it, it's almost like a dream, I felt like I dreamt this was going to happen, but I could never picture how it would feel," Stani said. "It's very emotional for me, and it feels really good."

On social media, Samantha said she was "so proud" of her mother and her accomplishments, adding that she "impacted so many people" and is an "inspiration."

Cheryl Makin is an award-winning features and education reporter for MyCentralJersey.com, part of the USA Today Network. Contact: Cmakin@gannettnj.com or @CherylMakin.

This article originally appeared on MyCentralJersey.com: NJ mother dies of COVID weeks after giving birth to fourth child