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“90 Day”'s Debbie Has Found a New Man Who Wants to 'Make Love,' but She's Shy After 14-Year Sex Drought (Exclusive)

“90 Day”'s Debbie Has Found a New Man Who Wants to 'Make Love,' but She's Shy After 14-Year Sex Drought (Exclusive)

As Miss Debbie Aguero's date with Ruben can't help but wonder if she can "turn back into a virgin" after her successful date with Ruben on Monday's episode of '90 Day: The Single Life' but wonders if she 'turn back into a virgin'

90 Day: The Single Life’s Miss Debbie Aguero is wondering if she’s ready to open herself up to physical intimacy once again.

In PEOPLE's exclusive sneak peek at Monday's episode of the hit TLC spinoff of 90 Day Fiancé, Miss Debbie, 67, finds herself on a flirtatious date with love interest Ruben — and revealing that she hasn’t had sex in over a decade.

“It’s been 14 years since I’ve had sex,” she says bluntly at one point in the clip. “Is it physically possible I turn back into a virgin? Sometimes I wonder.”

Despite feeling like it’s been a while since she’s felt comfortable and secure enough in a relationship to have sex, things appear to heat up between her and Ruben, the 58-year-old man who she met earlier in the season and nicknamed “Ruben the Cuban from Miami.”

<p>TLC</p> Miss Debbie and Ruben in '90 Day: The Single Life'

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Miss Debbie and Ruben in '90 Day: The Single Life'

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In the sneak peak of Monday’s episode, the two enjoy a romantic night out together at a Miami nightclub where they both hit the dance floor and sip mojitos while cozying up next to one another in a booth.

Ruben even opens up about what a special date it was. “I think we’re definitely hitting it off. We’re giggling and enjoying ourselves all night. I think that’s a great vibe,” he says.

The Miami native also candidly admits that he's hoping to find more than a “quick, hot weekend” fling. Ruben explains, “I’m looking for somebody that I can have fun with, somebody that’s my best friend, that I can talk to about anything.”

He continues, “I’m not looking just for sex, I want to make love. I would rather take my time, be a gentleman and just enjoy ourselves and build from that.”

<p>TLC</p> Miss Debbie in '90 Day: The Single Life'

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Miss Debbie in '90 Day: The Single Life'

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Miss Debbie seems to be aligned with what her date’s looking for, as she also opens up about being glad she never had sex with Oussama, whose courtship she was burned by on 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way.

“Oussama tried to have sex with me several times in Morocco before our upcoming marriage and I told him, ‘No,’ several times,” she said. “‘You ain’t getting any of this ice cream, honey.’”

“I am so glad I didn’t let Miss Debbie give up her virgin and honor to that young punk,” she added.

While Miss Debbie was “hurt” by her previous relationship with 24-year-old Oussama, on this season of 90 Day: The Single Life, she has spoken about how excited she is to have met someone new in Ruben.

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Earlier in the season she shared, “We’ve been talking everyday for a couple of weeks, and he’s Cuban. He’s got that exotic flare that I’m looking for.”

“You know, it sounds romantic: 'Ruben the Cuban from Miami,’” she added. “And he’s age-appropriate, and he likes to travel. And he ran with the bulls. It’s like, you know, he’s got my spirit.”

Though their relationship is relatively new, the two have already dubbed themselves “Sugar Hill Debbie-Licious and Ruben the Groovin’ Cuban.”

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